Hey Moms
When you become a mother you become a multitasking woman. Suddenly you feel you become a mature person. You become a very responsible person.
You want everything to be perfect for the little one. You have a lot to do and a lot to go through the circumstances. That is why you need something to do other than baby work. Something that you love to do when you become free from baby. I can guess what you think to do yeah SLEEPING.
I love this word now. I can’t find time to sleep when my daughter born. I was like feeling irritated and tired everytime. I know this is really difficult to have time for yourself and have a perfect nap you want. But here are few things you can do that makes your life a bit comfortable and good.
MAKE YOU ROUTINE ACCORDING TO YOU BABY
Babies sleep a lot when they born i guess they sleep around 18-20 hrs till three months. After that they take 15-16hrs of nap and then it decreases accordingly. What I am saying is try to make your routine according to your baby naps.
Do your household works also but don’t make it like hell for you. If the house is messy or you can’t make food or anything that you can’t do alone Don’t panic dear. Just take two -three deep breaths and then set you priorities then start one by one. If you feel tired, take a small nap then do. Don’t watch clock for anything. You should only watch your baby’s timing that’s it.
Ask for help
Ask for help that really works guys. Ask for help whenever you need. From your MIL(Mother-in-Law) or Maid or Your Mom or neighbour or your hubby. Just think about it once from whom you can take. Once you ask for help you will definitely get from any of the above options.
Find some time for yourself
Always find some time for only and only yourself. I must say that will be rocking for you guys. You should follow your passion in that time. You do what love to do. It can be anything listen some music, dance if you want, cooking recipes you can watch, reading books or watch a movie. Anything you want to do.
I heard from my friends that mom always have to make time for herself and not having your own time is not healthy.
Wonderful tips! I'm not a mom yet but I can imagine making time for self care is key.
These are very helpful tips and I am going to share it my friend who is a new mom! She will find them useful š
It is very important to take some time for yourself. We tend to forget as new moms.
I think finding me-time for Moms is the most challenging. Yeah Moms hav ethr most busy schedule but it is not a good excuse to not have your me-time or at least comb your hair. Taking care of yourselves is a must, before the others.
Great article. I don't have any kids yet, but I would hope that my future wife would follow these guidelines.
It is so important as a mom to find time for yourself. I learned that a little late in the game but nonetheless, I did get to enjoy some me time!
My friend has 2 year old twins and just found out that she is pregnant again with twins! I can't even imagine what that is like. She will definitely need time for herself and help from others.